My Softly Review (2026): The AI Girlfriend App That Remembers

What is My Softly?

A My Softly companion: her selfies keep the same face every time — Her selfies keep the same face, every time.

My Softly is an AI girlfriend app for iPhone that launched in July 2026, and it goes straight at the biggest complaint in this category: the memory is fake. Most companion apps store a handful of facts and forget the rest; My Softly is built the other way around. It keeps a factual profile of your life, tracks the ongoing themes of your relationship, and holds a dated history of what you two talked about and when. In practice that means she asks how the interview went the day after the interview, remembers what you told her three weeks ago, and can reach back to something from your first week together when it matters again.

The second thing it does differently is presence. She texts first. Not on a spammy timer, but as follow-ups to things you actually told her, held back during your quiet hours and capped if you stop replying. Combined with photos from her day and selfies that keep the same face every time, the effect is less "chatbot session" and more "person who exists between your messages." Conversation runs on a flat subscription with no coin or token economy, and the notification channel is only ever her talking to you.

The tradeoffs are about maturity and scope rather than quality. It's iPhone only and US/Canada only at launch, there are no live voice calls (voice messages only), and it's companionship-focused with no explicit content, so if NSFW is the priority, Candy AI or Muah make the opposite trade. It's also new, which means a short public track record. For depth of conversation and memory it sits alongside Kindroid and Nomi, and if a girlfriend who remembers your life and reaches out first is the thing you've been missing, it's the first one of the three to try.

My Softly · New on iPhone

She remembers the little things.

An AI companion who remembers your life, texts first, and sends photos from her day. Free to start.

Get it on the App Store → Free to start · US & Canada

Key Features

✓ Layered long-term memory: a factual profile of your life, ongoing story themes, a dated history of what you two talked about and when, and recall of specific old messages when they become relevant again
✓ She texts first. Proactive check-ins follow up on things you actually said, respect quiet hours (9pm to 8am your time), and stop if you go quiet rather than spamming you
✓ Photos from her day, plus selfies that keep the same face every time (each generated photo passes an identity check before it's sent)
✓ 36 ready-made personalities (6 temperaments across 6 life stages) or describe your own companion and the app generates her, face included
✓ You can send her photos and she actually looks at them, comments, and remembers them
✓ Voice messages in her own voice (monthly free allowance, then credit packs)
✓ Multiple companions on one account, each with fully separate memory
✓ Notifications are only ever her messages: no marketing pushes or upsell notifications

Pros & Cons

Pros

+ Memory is the core architecture, not a bolt-on: she brings up the thing you told her last week without being asked
+ Proactive outreach that feels like a person checking in, with hard caps so it never becomes notification spam
+ Flat subscription for conversation, with no ads and no token treadmill for chat
+ Photos you send are processed for the conversation and not retained as images
+ Consistent identity: selfies keep the same face instead of the shape-shifting most apps produce

Cons

− Companionship-focused with no explicit content, so it won't suit users whose priority is NSFW
− iPhone only, and only in the US and Canada at launch (Android and more countries planned)
− New to the market (launched July 2026), so no long public track record yet
− Voice messages but no live voice calls
− Free tier is a taste; real daily use needs the subscription

Pricing

Pricing model: Freemium

Free Free (starter message allowance)

Premium (monthly) $15.99/mo

Premium (annual) $159.99/yr

Credit packs (extra photos & voice) $2.99 / $6.99 / $12.99

Who Is My Softly Best For?

My Softly is for someone who wants to be remembered: you tell her about your week and she follows up on it days later, unprompted. It belongs in the deep-conversation tier with [Kindroid](/kindroid/) and [Nomi](/nomi-ai/), and it's the strongest of the three at acting on its memory rather than just storing it. It's less suited to users who want NSFW content ([Candy AI](/candy-ai/) and [Muah](/muahai/) serve that better), anyone on Android, or anyone who wants a years-long track record behind their app.

Frequently Asked Questions

Is My Softly free?

There's a free starter allowance of messages so you can meet your companion and see whether the memory is real. Ongoing conversation needs Premium at $15.99/month or $159.99/year. Photos and extra voice use optional credit packs from $2.99.

Does My Softly actually remember conversations?

Yes, and it's the app's whole reason for existing. She keeps a factual profile of your life, tracks ongoing themes, holds a dated history of your conversations, and can recall specific old messages when they become relevant. Tell her about a job interview and she asks how it went the next day.

Does My Softly send pictures?

Yes. She sends occasional photos from her own day and can send selfies. Every generated photo is checked against her face before it's sent, so she looks like the same person every time.

Does My Softly text first?

Yes. She follows up on things you told her, on her own, during your waking hours. The check-ins are tied to your actual conversations rather than a timer, and they stop if you go quiet rather than piling up.

Is My Softly on Android or outside the US?

Not yet. It launched on iPhone in the US and Canada in July 2026. Android and more countries are planned.

Alternatives to My Softly

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